Quiz – SheMeetsShe

Before You Begin

This assessment is not about impressing us. It is about being honest with yourself.

At SheMeetsShe, we believe every woman is already whole. You do not need to appear “better” or “more desirable.” You simply need to be authentic.

The accuracy of your matches depends entirely on your honesty. Please answer truthfully — not as you wish to be perceived.

Clarity creates alignment. Authenticity creates connection.

Section 1 · Geography

1. Where do you live?

2. Are you open to being in a relationship with someone of a different nationality?

Yes Possibly No

3. Based on your appearance only, how would you describe yourself?

Feminine Tomboy Masculine

4. Based on appearance only, which look are you most attracted to?

Feminine Tomboy Masculine

5. Would you consider dating someone outside your country?

Yes Possibly No

6. Would you relocate for the right relationship?

Yes Possibly No

Section 2 · Culture & Language

7. What is your native language?

8. What additional languages do you speak?

9. What is your nationality?

10. How would you describe your cultural background?

11. Are you open to dating someone from a different cultural background?

Yes Possibly No

12. Are you open to dating someone of a different nationality?

Yes Possibly No

13. How comfortable are you with language differences in a relationship?

Very comfortable Somewhat comfortable Not comfortable

Section 3 · Attraction & Polarity

14. How do you express your gender energy?

Feminine Masculine Fluid

15. Which energy are you most attracted to?

Feminine Masculine Fluid

16. Describe what you find physically attractive.

17. What is your skin tone?

18. Do you have a skin tone preference in a partner?

19. What is your eye color?

20. Do you have an eye color preference in a partner?

21. What is your hair length?

22. Do you have a hair length preference in a partner?

23. What is your hair color?

24. Do you have a hair color preference in a partner?

25. How would you describe your body type?

26. What body type do you prefer in a partner?

27. What is your height?

28. Do you have a height preference in a partner?

Section 4 · Education & Interests

29. What are your main interests?

30. What interests are important for your partner to have?

31. What do your weekends usually look like?

32. What is your typical evening routine?

33. What is your education level?

High school Bachelor’s Master’s Doctorate

34. What is the minimum education level you prefer in a partner?

No requirement Bachelor’s or higher Master’s or higher

Section 5 · Life Structure

35. What is your current relationship status?

36. Do you have children?

37. Would you prefer your partner to be a mother (have children)?

Yes Maybe No

38. How would you like your partner to relate to and experience your children?

39. How do you imagine yourself relating to and experiencing your partner’s children?

40. How important is formal commitment (marriage or equivalent) to you?

Very important Somewhat important Not important

41. How important is living together to you?

Important Maybe / someday Not important

42. Do you currently have pets?

Yes No Prefer not to say

43. How important is it to you to raise a pet (now or in the future)?

Important Maybe Not important

44. What is your religion (if any)?

45. How important is it that you and your partner share the same religion?

Important Somewhat important Not important

46. What do you do for a living?

47. How would you describe your current financial situation?

48. What is the minimum financial stability you want your partner to have?

49. Describe yourself: what is important for your partner to know about you?

50. Describe what you are looking for in a relationship and in a partner.

51. Do you smoke?

No Sometimes Yes

52. Would it bother you if your partner smokes?

No It depends Yes

53. Do you drink alcohol?

No Sometimes Yes

54. Would it bother you if your partner drinks alcohol?

No It depends Yes

Section 6 · Health & Sexuality

55. How would you describe your physical activity level?

56. How important is it to you that your partner exercises regularly?

Important Somewhat important Not important

57. What best describes your diet?

58. How important is it that your partner shares a similar diet?

Important It depends Not important

59. Do you consider yourself a sexual person?

Yes Sometimes No

60. How sexually open-minded do you consider yourself?

Very open-minded Somewhat open-minded Not open-minded

61. How often would you ideally like to have sex per week?

62. Where would you place yourself on a liberal–conservative spectrum?

More liberal In the middle More conservative

63. How important is it that you and your partner share similar political views?

Important It depends Not important

64. What are your career aspirations?

65. How important is it that your partner has strong career ambitions?

Very important Somewhat important Not very important

Section 7 · Conflict & Attachment

66. In close relationships, you tend to:

Seek closeness and reassurance Value independence and space Feel secure balancing both Feel unsure and fluctuate

67. When your partner becomes distant, you usually:

Try to reconnect immediately Give space and wait Feel anxious or overthink Withdraw emotionally

68. When you are hurt, how do you usually react?

Express it openly Internalize it Become reactive Need time before responding

69. How long does it typically take you to calm down after conflict?

Minutes A few hours A day Several days

70. In disagreements, you tend to:

Confront directly Avoid conflict Try to mediate calmly Become emotionally intense

71. Do you prefer to resolve conflict immediately or after space?

Immediately After some space It depends

72. When you realize you are wrong, you usually:

Apologize quickly Struggle but eventually admit it Defend yourself first Shut down

73. How do you experience jealousy?

Rarely Occasionally but manageable Often and intensely I withdraw when insecure

74. Trust for you is built through:

Consistency Emotional transparency Time Shared experiences

75. How easily do you forgive?

Easily With effort I hold onto things It depends on severity

76. How comfortable are you with emotional vulnerability?

Very comfortable Somewhat comfortable Guarded Very guarded

77. What triggers you most in relationships?

78. Looking back, what pattern tends to repeat in your relationships?

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